When the kids were 5 and 6, he upped and left leaving devastation in his wake.
My uncle got married and had 2 children because he felt pressured to conform. You didn't grow up in Catholic Ireland in the 50's or 60's. I wouldn't ever be having sex with a man!ĮDIT : Anyways, this is going well away from the OP's issue, and isn't going to help much (to the point of possibly freaking them out even more), so if you want to discuss this further we'll do so elsewhere. If I somehow felt pressured by society to be in what seemed like a relationship with a man, living with them, etc, I can tell you one thing for absolute certainty! Problem is she might already know about it and could be embarrassed if the OP does. If you were the OP's mother is it not something you'd want to know about? I hope for your and their sake that they'll find it in themselves to get their relationship back on track.ĭo you not see how its different because its gay porn? Probably means his father is gay. That, as the pseudo problem the headline alludes to, is something between your mother and your father. But I'm afraid you cannot really help here. Pron or no pron, that's what's bothering you, and rightly so. The real problem is your parents going through a hard phase with each other. Thirdly and lastly, you are considering symptoms at best. Your father's pron consumption should not be enough to upset you to the point of losing sleep. Secondly, would you react differently if he had watched hetero pron? Now I understand that seeing one's parents as sexual beings can be unsettling but come on, at 27, you really are old enough now to understand the matter of the flowers and the bees and of physical gratification. The only person who has a right to even say anything about it is your mother. i know its kinda pathetic searching for advice of randomers on the net but this something i cant talk about with any friends or family.įirstly, if your father watches pron, of whatever legal kind, that doesn't concern you. my family are starting to ask if somethings wrong with me as im quiet around them and pretty much hide out in my room as soon as i get home from work. I have trouble sleeping, i can't look him in the eye anymore. if i confront my dad will he get angry deny it and boot me out of the gaf? i worry if i tell my mam will she just up and leave. i worry how it might affect them as they are both in there teens. i have a younger brother and a younger sister. should i confront him about it or should i tell my mam? i feel like he's betraying her. my dad even bought myself and my sister new laptops and got wireless broadband in house how (i've just turned 27 earn good money and didnt even ask for one and i genuinely wondered why he bought me such a nice gift out of the blue). since i moved back i noticed my parents don't get on too well, often sit in different rooms of the house watching different tvs. several things are also making sense now. he is the only one that uses it now as my brother is away.
#Watching dad porn gay Pc#
A couple of days after Christmas i was using the family pc and hit the new tab button, one of the tiles that appeared was a gay porn site. I am now back living in the family home since last August. I told myself he must have just stumbled upon it by accident and tried to forget about it. i left ireland soon after and travelled abroad for a year and when i came back i then moved out of the house. when i later went to see what it was, i discovered some male gay porn website.) I was freaked out but kind of blocked it out of my mind. I had my suspicions of this about 3 years ago (i walked in to the pc room to see him quickly close out of the screen. My father who has been married to mother for over twenty years and has three children watches gay porn. i really want to make clear that i am not taking this p*ss and i'm looking for genuine advice.
I don't know where else to turn as I have NOBODY to talk this over with but it is melting my head.